There are times when u don’t have good smart guys to look at and there are times when you have no other option left, you are forced to make your head turn to look out of the window. This happens when you are sitting at a bonut of a packed bus and you have to avoid those men sitting inside & staring at you.
It’s raining outside, watching the rush, the chaos, people running to all directions, don’t know for how long years they might be following the same routine.
It was as if I am back again to my old days when I started doing job in Delhi. I thought i did surely took a lot of pain running behind the buses, changing buses, hopping from one stop to another, waiting & praying God “if any seat gets vacant it should be only near me (ASAP)…pls “.
Even after going thru so much, i never planned but indirectly this might have pushed me to get a better comfortable life for myself, which i did.
It took me few years to realize that my life has changed. Slowly, steadily things around me have changed until one day one of my old friend was back in town. We were just remembering those golden college days (which can never be termed old), when this topic started And that day I finally heard me saying this “I just cant think od traveling in buses nor do I can see my husband actually I don’t want my family also to ever get in the Bus. I don’t want to see myself carrying small baby in a bike. I just can’t stand those parents also (no offense). Me and my future family deserve a better life ahead”.
That was the day I really got to know myself. How much I have changed, I was never the one who literally craved for these materialistic things. A girl who grew up in a very comfortable zone .. parents with an open attitude, always thought and wanted a content life ahead. I remember one of my college friend who always wanted to marry a guy who has Esteem & she indeed did.
Sometimes I think how much practical she was.
There might be 80 people in the bus .. everyday from those 80, one shifts to scooter or a car. And everyday a man becomes capable enough to take his family on a bus ride. Things are surely changing for good.
Coming back to the Bonut of the bus, I swear ed…..in any case I will never ever want myself to be sitting here again.
This is the Necessity and I won’t Compromise…
ARE YOU LISTENING……………..
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In b/w I had a great fun frolic weekend.. Dancing in an artificial Rain that too in a hot summer day of Dilli.. GOD we went crazy.. thanks sweety.
And thanks to those few people who have come in my life as a breath of fresh air (Doc says Ionized air is good for health). So pls be there [:)] … I need you.
Sometimes forwarded mails are really cool .. see what I got from there –
What is the difference between Pig & Man?
Pig don’t behave like a Man after he gets DRUNK.
CHEERS
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Never ever compromise, esp. with yourself...
And man is not always a PIG when he is drunk... he is much worse!
Awesome picture with those kids....its worth a 1 million dollars!
BTW post was good too...revealing human side of you....not bad!
i feel you are getting too materialistic! girl! it hurts when your dreams are shattered! it is the best to stay as close to the ground as possible! there may be odd days later in your life when you may be compelled to get into the bus! what would you do then? stand where you are and put your foot down saying you cannot get into the bus because it is against your desires???
i am sure you may find some guy who could give you these materialistic pleasures and do wish that you find some one like that soon! :-)
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